The Best Gifts For Her…Or Yourself!

Holiday Gifts For Her

Can you believe it’s only October and we’re already talking about the holidays!? I feel like we start talking about it earlier and earlier each year! But with shipping delays and stock issues, now is the time. If you’re not ready to start your holiday shopping yet, make sure to bookmark this page and come back to it later!

All of these gifts are perfect for that special lady on your list…or YOURSELF! If you’re reading this and know someone who’s shopping for you this holiday season…send them this gift guide! Or treat yourself to something you love because you deserve it.

Find more holiday gift guides, decor, outfits, and more here. Plus, gifts for him too!

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Chic Trench

Is anyone surprised that this trench is on my holiday gifting list? It is SO gorgeous, perfect for the fashionista in your life, and more versatile than you think!

Brown Handbag

If you’re looking for a handbag that’s on-trend but a little more understated, go with this pretty bag! I love the color and minimalist silhouette. It also comes in black.

Golden Goose Sneakers

If you’re really wanting to treat yourself (or someone on your list) this year, I highly recommend a pair of Golden Goose sneakers! They come in a lot of color options but I love that these are very natural with the brown back.

Cool Denim

Know someone who’s as big a fan of the baggy jean trend as I am? These jeans are my favorite and won’t disappoint!

Camel Coat

Does anyone remember this Ralph Lauren wool coat from last year? It’s back! And it would make a wonderful gift!

Cashmere Sweater

I share an Aqua cashmere sweater in my holiday gift guides every. Single. Year. Why? Because they’re THAT good! The cashmere is super high quality, the design details are always really cool and different, and the price is unbeatable! I love the shoulder detail on this sweater…

Trendy Boots

These trendy, western-inspired Isabel Marant boots are SO chic! I’ve worn them with jeans and faux leather pants so far but can’t wait to style them with more. I know they’re a little pricey so I linked more of my favorite black boots for fall/winter in case you’re looking for more affordable options.

Favorite Handbag

I bought this Bottega Veneta bag in white at the beginning of the year and it’s the only bag I brought with me to Spain! It’s a great size, on-trend (but not too trendy), and so luxe!

Initial Necklace

For a personalized gift, you can’t go wrong with this 18K-gold plated initial necklace…it has a paper clip chain and pavé initial.

Best-Selling Sweater

This sweater has been a best seller every month since July! It comes in a couple of colors, is super soft and cozy, and pairs perfectly with jeans, skirts, and pants.

Luxe Loungewear

The loungewear “trend” isn’t going anywhere. And these pants are so comfortable... but elegant. I also linked the matching sleeveless turtleneck. Both would make a great gift and they’re at a nice price point for the quality!


You can never go wrong with a cool pair of sunglasses and this pair comes in a few color options!

Cutout Top

This super chic cutout top is on-trend, versatile, and would be a great gift! Pair it with jeans and a leather jacket or wool coat for a chic look during the holidays!

Reversible Scarf

This scarf is so pretty. It’s cashmere and reversible…one side is the classic Burberry check print and the other is their neutral monogram print.

Gorgeous Earrings

Monica Vinader has been a long-time favorite jewelry brand. I bought these beautiful hoop earrings with pearl charms and LOVE them! The charms are sold separately but even just the hoops without the pearls would be a lovely gift!
How To Manifest Anything, Fashion blogger Erin Busbee of Busbee Style wearing an orange and blue Staud Ina dress with white sunglasses walking around in Telluride, Colorado
Erin Busbee
After a decade in TV news, a desire to help women "look pretty" sparked a career pivot. I started my own wardrobe consulting business, styling "real" women for many years. In 2014, I changed direction again, using my TV background and styling expertise to launch this website and my YouTube channel. We are now a community of nearly 700,000 dynamic, vibrant, amazing women over 40... who know that age isn't something you need to hide from. For us, life is just getting started!!
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13 thoughts on “The Best Gifts For Her…Or Yourself!

  1. Hi Erin,

    I am interested in the Mousy vintage jeans- the reviews i saw recommended going up a size. Do you agree?

    thanks so much, i am petite and they look so good on you – i want to give them a try!

    Thanks so much!

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