2 Outfits That Can Take You From The Office To Date Night
Office To Date Night Outfit
As we get older, it can be hard to get in touch with our sexy side. Some of us are going through menopause, haven’t felt sexy in a while, or just don’t know how to dress sexy over 40. I know it’s hard, but you have to remember we are beautiful, empowering, sexy women! Whether you’re trying to get back in the dating game or just want something to wear on your next date night with your partner, both of these looks are sexy AND sophisticated. And, since as women we are ALWAYS mutli-tasking, these looks will take you from the office to date night without skipping a beat.
Speaking of sexy, you can find our roundup of sexy sweaters here.
This high neck, slightly sheer blouse by ba&sh is perfect for the office with a cami underneath but for date night, you could wear a black bra for a touch of sexy without being too much. It has some unique details like a small, v-shaped opening in the back (you can still wear a regular bra) and zippers on the sleeves. I paired it with this IRO leather midi skirt…leather is just sexy. Period. It’s luxe, soft and edgy but because of the midi-length, it’s still office appropriate. The high-waist, ruching, and gathers will help camouflage a tummy and hips if those are areas of concern. There is a slit up the front, but it’s modest and when you wear black tights, it’s still very acceptable for workwear especially if you work in a more modern atmosphere or office.
I love a good, one-and-done dress for the office or date night. What makes this & Other Stories mini perfect for either occasion is that it follows my One Skin Rule! That is, since it’s on the shorter side, the legs are the ONE highlighted area. The rest of the dress is pretty modest with the long sleeves and high, tie-neck. For date night, you could untie the neck to show a bit more skin. This exact dress is no longer available in the black polka dot, but the exact style is available in a pretty, black and pink, small floral print which will be perfect now for winter and going into spring! I paired the dress with Schutz booties that are sleek and sexy (and pretty comfortable for heels!) and a gorgeous belt by Elizabetta Franchi. I purchased the belt in Spain and unfortunately, can’t find the exact one to link but I did link a similar belt above that will give you the same look and edgy feel.
Note: One of our team members, Susan, purchased the similar belt by B-Low the Belt and says it’s beautiful! It also runs large so you may want to consider sizing down one size.
More Day To Dinner Dresses
Here are some additional mini, midi, and maxi day-to-dinner options I love…
What is your go-to date night outfit over 40? Let me know in the comments!
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A Brand Women Over 40 Should Invest In For Quality Blouses
Frame is usually known for their high-quality denim. I do love Frame jeans, but what I love this brand for even more is their beautiful blouses! I own a few of them and they are my absolute favorite. These are super high quality blouses you’ll wear over and over again. They’re at a higher price point, but in my opinion, they’re worth the investment! If you’re interested in investing in high-quality pieces to elevate your wardrobe, this is the brand to try out! I’m sharing a few of my favorites below…
This white puff sleeve blouse is the newest addition to my Frame blouse collection. This top is body skimming. I talk more about the benefits of wearing body skimming tops in this video on how to hide a tummy. The puff sleeve is a great shoulder building detail for all of my rectangle-shaped ladies. I also love the flattering rounded hem…and the 100% silk fabric is amazing! I have on a pretty silk cami by Lilysilk under the blouse and I just love how it adds a touch of sexiness. I paired it with high rise jeans and sandals, but Frame blouses are so versatile you can wear them with just about anything!
How To Wash: Frame blouses are “dry clean only”, which can make them hard to care for, but I just wash in cold, hang to dry, and steam them.
This was my first Frame blouse and I still wear it a ton! I love that it’s made from the same beautiful silk fabric. Since this one is sleeveless, I wear it a lot during the spring/summer. But it’s also perfect for fall because it layers so beautifully under a jacket or blazer!
This white 3/4 sleeve top is another great option. I love the blouson sleeves, v-neckline, and higher collar. If you like Frame blouses or want to try one, something like this is perfect because it’s a neutral color and will pair easily with everything in your closet. I’ve linked more of my favorites below.
Shop more Frame tops here, here and here.
More Frame Blouses
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20 Styles of Dresses That Every Woman Should Know About
The fashion industry never stops evolving. It can feel overwhelming to try and keep up with the latest styles, especially as busy women over 40!
One of my go-to’s when I’m not sure what to wear… a dress. It’s an easy one-and-done piece that is also so feminine. But, again there are SO many dress styles that it can be incredibly overwhelming. To help you find the perfect dress for your personality, style, and lifestyle, I’m going over 20 dress styles that every woman should know about. From summer dresses to evening gowns, I’ve covered all the popular styles to help you update your wardrobe…and get out of overwhelm.
Think of this as your Cliff’s Notes for dresses. Ready? Let’s do this…
#1 | The Backless Dress
Backless dresses are usually worn for formal, or semi-formal events. They bring plenty of sophistication, while still packing style, glamour, and MAJOR sex appeal. The dress above is a dressier option, but there are plenty of backless dresses that are great for casual summer outings too! If you like to flaunt your back and highlight your curves, a backless dress is a great addition to your closet.
#2 | Off the Shoulder Dresses
Off-shoulder dresses show off your shoulders while keeping your upper arm covered. The chest is such a beautiful part of a woman’s body and a great area to highlight at any age. This style gives you femininity and sex appeal, without committing to a completely strapless look. For a great off the shoulder dress that covers your arms, this is a great option.
#3 | Bodycon Dresses
Bodycon dresses can be a little difficult to pull off over 40 but if you’ve got it, flaunt it! Bodycon dresses accentuate your assets by hugging your body. The tight fit naturally draws eyes to your curves. They are usually tighter in the bust and hip areas, which can give you a look that exudes confidence. If you’re unsure, make sure you check out my video on how to determine your body shape!
#4 | Lace Dresses
I love a gorgeous lace dress! Lace dresses present a timeless style that strikes a balance between feminine and conservative. Lace is usually considered a traditional fabric but finding the right kind of lace can be difficult. Some of my favorite lace dresses are by Bardot…they have gorgeous lace patterns and they’re affordable! your wardrobe for a cute and classic look. This lace dress is sold out in lavender but it’s available in other colors here. I also love this sexy, halter neckline which shows off your shoulders.
#5 | Long Sleeve Dresses
Dresses don’t have to be revealing to make a statement. Long sleeve dresses carry a timeless sophistication that really supports the concept of “less is more.” Remember, the great thing about long sleeve dresses is they look great on women of all ages! If you’re self-conscious about your arms, try a long sleeve dress! This dress by Rotate is perfect for women over 40 AND it’ll transition into fall!
#6 | Strapless Dresses
Show off your shoulders and arms with a strapless dress. They draw attention to your collarbones or any necklace accessories you chose to add to your outfit. Remember that if you go for a strapless dress, you’ll need a good strapless bra (another wardrobe basic)!
#7 | A-line Dresses
A-line dresses fit snugly at the chest and hips and gradually flare out, which gives the dress their distinct ‘A’ shape. A-line dresses are usually very flattering on most body shapes! Best of all, they look great in almost any occasion and can easily be dressed up or down. This stunning belted, A-line dress by A.L.C. is super chic and great for summer!
NOTE: The waistline for a-line dresses can be just underbust (empire waist) at your natural waist or a drop waist.
#8 | Shift Dresses
A shift dress does not hug the body, which makes it perfect for women of all shapes and sizes. They don’t have a defined waist, so don’t worry about them being too revealing or snug. There are tons of shift dress styles as well…there are work shift dresses, casual shift dresses, special occasion shift dress, etc.
#9 | Mini Dresses
Mini dresses are exceptionally short, which allows you to show off your legs! This sexy L’Academie mini dress is great for summer and it’s short but still appropriate if you feel comfortable showing some leg!
#10 | Halter Dresses
Halter dresses feature a sleeveless upper half that sometimes ties around the neck. This sexy style will show off toned shoulders! This halter dress is by Amanda Uprichard has a high neck and drop waist. It’s a sweet and sophisticated LWD!
#11 | Peplum Dresses
Peplum dresses use a cute combination of fit and flare. They use a slightly flared strip of fabric around the waistline, while still hugging the upper legs. The peplum top or dress can make your waist look smaller and also hide a little tummy. In the image above, I’m wearing a peplum jacket. I don’t own a peplum dress, but I’m about to change that. I LOVE this one!
#12 | Sweater Dresses
I love a beautiful (and comfy) sweater dress. I even wear them year-round because I live in a cooler climate. It’s easy to throw on with some swanky mules or booties/boots and be ready to go! Plus, you can dress them up or down depending on the occasion. Sweater dresses come in all styles, lengths, levels of warmth, etc. The gorgeous blue sweater dress I’m wearing above is sold out but you can find more sweater dresses here. I shared more about this exact outfit in here.
#13 | Pencil Dresses
Pencil dresses get their name from their long, slender, pencil-like shape. Their form-fitted style lacks frills and can be used to give the illusion of added height. They are perfect for chic occasions and in simple, solid fabrics, ideal for women in corporate America.
#14 | Slip Dresses
Slip dresses are exactly what they sound like… a dress that looks like a slip. They ooze sex appeal because of the fact they are typically reserved for bedtime or as an undergarment. It’s easy to style a slip dress different by throwing a jacket or blazer over your shoulders and changing your shoes. They are often made from delicate fabrics like silk.
#15 | Maxi Dresses
Maxi dresses are THE BEST! The hemline is typically slightly off the ground, just above your shoes. These dresses are very versatile and can be worn to everything from daytime parties, to weddings even the beach!
#16 | Cocktail Dresses
The cocktail dress is an essential piece of after-evening wear. They usually hit somewhere in the knee zone… and are dressy enough to wear to parties and events. This dress should be one that makes a statement and makes you feel confident and sophisticated!
#17 | Tube Dresses
I wouldn’t touch a tube dress unless you are in your 20’s. They are really tough to pull off. It’s basically a bodycon dress, but with a strapless tube-style top. They are tight, form-fitting, and almost always strapless. The stretchy material hugs the chest and waist to prevent the dress from slipping down.
#18 | Sun Dresses
Sundresses are a must-have for summer days. They combine a loose-fitting design with a wide neckline to give off a casual look. Soft, light materials combine with feminine fabric and colors …make this perfect for a cute summer look.
#19 | Kimono Dresses
Kimono dresses borrow from traditional Japanese styles to give off a sophisticated look that is difficult to replicate. They use long sleeves and a distinct wrap dress closure. It’s such a flattering option for many different body shapes. If you are not sure what body shape you are, be sure to watch this video.
#20 | Shirt Dresses
Shirt dreses are my FAVORITE! I love that they are typically belted to create a more defined waist and/or accentuate your shape. They are also versatile and can easily transition from daytime to night.
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